Everything happens for a reason both the good and the bad. Some people come into your life to build you up while others try to break you down. Every encounter has a purpose ultimately it is up to you to use it to make you better, stronger and wiser.
How many of you can say that you’ve never been hurt emotionally, physically or psychologically by another human being? I’ve been hurt and I don’t feel bad acknowledging this because even Jesus had his share of hurt, pain and disappointments.
How many of you can say that when you were hurt that it did not negatively affect you? Whenever, I feel hurt sometimes it affects my mood, my appetite and even my interactions with others. The fact is, we all react to pain differently but we all react nonetheless.
PAIN is a part of life. There is no way we would be able to go through this life and have everything and everyone in our lives be perfect 24/7. It is unrealistic because life itself is unpredictable. We have to learn to handle our pain and emotions in a manner that does not leave us feeling defeated, helpless and broken.
The circumstance may have labelled you the “victim” but you can determine if you accept or reject that label. Take a note of the following, DON’T LET YOUR PAIN…
- STEAL YOUR FUTURE.
- HOLD YOU BACK IN LIFE.
- PARALYZE YOU.
- KEEP YOU STUCK.
- FEED YOU EXCUSES FOR STAYING WHERE YOU ARE.
- BLIND YOU FROM YOUR TRUTH.
- DENY YOU JOY AND HAPPINESS.
- SHUT THE PEOPLE OUT WHO REALLY LOVE AND CARE FOR YOU.
- SMOTHER YOU ANYMORE.
- CONTROL YOUR LIFE.
Some facts I thought you should know:
- YOU ARE NOT PERFECT AND THAT’S OKAY. NO ONE IS!
- YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR CIRCUMSTANCE – SO DON’T JUST SIT BACK AND ACCEPT THAT’S HOW IT IS.
- YOUR FUTURE IS ULTIMATELY UP TO YOU.
- USE THE PAIN TO YOUR ADVANTAGE – LEARN FROM IT – GROW WISER AND STRONGER.
- PAIN IS NOT OUR WEAKNESS. IT JUST MEANS WE ARE HUMAN.
- DON’T GIVE UP.
Time for the healing to begin. Find your purpose. You were not put on this earth to be mediocre and unhappy. You have a purpose and you have to find it. Don’t let your pain stop your growth or keep you stuck in a rot.
Over the years with every situation I realized there was a lesson to be learnt. Not only about the people involved in it but about myself as well. Ask yourself what is the ‘lesson’ to be learnt from this experience? What good can you take from these lessons? Find it, so you can move forward.
You’ve made it this far!