Break Free and know that WE are BIGGER than OUR circumstances.
Break Free and understand that the POWER to change and improve OUR lives starts with US.
Break Free and prosper.
Break Free and claim peace of mind.
Break Free and experience happiness and love.
Break Free and see your life in a new way.
Break Free and nurture your strength of mind, body and spirit.
Break Free and go into this new day full of PURPOSE and a NEW understanding.
May the spirit of the Lord show us the way.
Give us the courage, wisdom, guidance and strength to see this process through.
Break Free, Break Free, Break Free.
Walk into this new day with your head up as we believe and work on our breakthroughs one day at a time. You are not alone! Trust and believe that you WILL overcome each and every obstacle in your life. In the name of Jesus, AMEN!
Have a blessed day friends. Thank you for stopping by.
Let me tell you a story about two families – the Benjamins and the Hopefuls. The Benjamins were a very wealthy family. They had two sons Sam and Samuel both of whom attended private school. Mr. and Mrs. Benjamin spent all of their time working and had little time to spend with their children. Their sons were usually left in the care of their nanny Elsa. She was an old woman who was always very nice and kind to them.
Mr. Benjamin learnt from an early age that he had to work hard for what he wanted and he honestly believed that the sacrifice he was making would spare his sons the tough lessons he had to learn growing up.
He was proud of his accomplishments and his sons but he would never tell them. Instead, whenever Mr. Benjamin and his sons would cross paths in the hallway of their home he would always stop them and say, “Everything I’m doing, is for you” and they would always shake their heads and answer, “Yes, father. We understand“. Then they would all continue on their way to wherever they were going as they would try to stay out of each other’s way.
The truth is, Sam and Samuel didn’t understand. In fact, the more time that passed the more resentful they became. They did not understand why having money and riches didn’t make them happy.
The Hopefuls on the other hand, were simple people. They were crop farmers and owned a modest piece of agricultural land. They had twins a boy and a girl, Adam and Angelina. Mr. and Mrs. Hopeful were hard-working, kind and humble people. They were not rich in material things but found value in each other. They made the most of everything they had and always believed in teaching their children about the value of a dollar, good manners, responsibility, life skills, independence, respect, integrity, gratitude and forgiveness.
Mr. Hopeful was a very serious man but when it came to his children his heart would melt like butter. He would play with them in the field, go swimming and even take them hunting. He treated his children equally. Mrs. Hopeful would help them with their homework and would encourage them to assist with the chores around the house. At bedtime she would read to them and kiss them on their foreheads. Before she would leave the room she would always say to them, “It does not matter where you start in this race called life; all that matters is how you finish.”
Adam and Angelina were always well-behaved and well-mannered. They knew their parents loved them. Even though they did not have all of the things the other children had they never felt as though they lacked anything. They always supported and looked out for each other.
As time went by the children in both families grew up and eventually took over the respective businesses their parents had left them. Mr. Benjamin eventually died from a heart-attack. Mrs. Benjamin died from a broken heart soon after. It seems the death of her husband was too much for her. Mr. and Mrs. Hopeful unfortunately died in a car accident later that year.
Sam and Samuel could not cope with the death of their parents. They felt alone and did not feel they were equipped to run the family business. Sam, the younger of the two started doing drugs and hanging out with the wrong people while Samuel turned to drinking and gambling. Needless to say, the once respected Benjamin name within two years had crumbled to nothing. The banks seized all of their properties and they had to file for bankruptcy. Sam was eventually imprisoned for drug possession and Samuel died in a car accident. The pressures of life seemed too much.
Adam and Angelina both missed their parents terribly but knew they had each other. They stuck together and worked hard to build and grow the family business. They had done so well that they were featured in the town’s newspaper. They eventually expanded and opened ‘The Hopeful’s Vegetables and Poultry Market’. All the lessons they had learnt as children growing up had prepared them for life.
Their once modest agricultural land had expanded into two and a half acres. As they sat on the porch looking at the beautiful sunset and all the blessings they had received they could not help but remember those words their mother would recite to them before bed, “It does not matter where you start in this race called life; all that matters is how you finish.”
This was my first short story. Hope you enjoyed it. 🙂
Conquer or to be conquered? That is the question. To ‘conquer’ is to defeat or overcome someone or something whereas to ‘be conquered’ is to be defeated or overcome by someone or something else. I found myself pondering on this today. Do you know that we have a choice in how the situations we sometimes find ourselves in ultimately affect us? Joy, sadness, fear, anger and depression. We can choose to walk away the ‘victor’ or the ‘victim’ in most of our circumstances.
Yes, I said “most” because there are those situations where the victim did not see it coming or was paralyzed with fear and could not act. These are really difficult situations that cannot be predicted and I am sorry that we even have to go through things like that but unfortunately it happens.
The situations however, that I am referring to are those that we struggle with everyday but have the control to improveand fix such as our relationships with each other and ourselves; our thoughts; our image (how others see us) and our self-image (how we see ourselves), our jobs, our addictions and our finances. These various aspects of our lives can often feel overwhelming and stressful when they are not going in the direction we want them to. So, what do we do?
We often get stressed out, angry and depressed when things in our life don’t unfold the way we want them to. In an effort to forget even if only for a few minutes we sometimes knowingly and unknowingly lash out at others, become introverted, over eat, not eat, for others it maybe more drinking or smoking and sometimes over spending. Do these actions help us fix the issues or just temporarily numb us up to them?
None of these responses to our various problems actually fixes them. In fact, those emotions create other issues for us that may affect our health and lives negatively. Some examples are frequent headaches, insomnia, develop eating disorders, acne and more. These symptoms vary from person to person but most of us have a negative reaction to stress in our lives.
When faced with difficult situations especially regarding some of the issues highlighted above we need to ask ourselves, “How do I want this to end? Am I going to conquer this or be conquered by it?” We must then take the necessary actions to overcome our situations. Here are some tips or suggestions.
Change your attitude and perspective. Stop being negative. A negative attitude will only block the answers. A positive attitude will help you find solutions.
Take action. Standing still and not taking the necessary steps to improve your situation won’t make it go away.
Take responsibility for your own life, the good and the bad. Some of our actions and choices have led some of us to where we are today. Let us stop blaming others entirely for our problems – as this keeps us stuck in the mess that we’re in.
View your problem or situation with‘fresh eyes’. I have found more often than not that we usually have all the answers for others when it comes to their problems but sometimes feel stuck in our own issues. Take a step back and try to view your situation as if it was someone else and think about what you would tell that person to do.
Don’t hold onto guilt and regret, they only slow you down. We have all made mistakes or did things that we aren’t proud of, so stop beating yourself up about it. Choose instead to learn from that decision and move on.
Talk about it. I can’t say that enough. Having someone you can trust to talk to even if it is just to listen to your concerns can be so relieving in itself. It gives your brain some much-needed time off.
Do not accept defeat! Fight that urge to quit.
From experience I can tell you, that to be a conqueror takes a mind shift. It is easy to go through life existing because it takes very little effort. It is choosing to live that really brings more happiness and peace of mind.
I do not know what your struggle is. I don’t know where you’ve been or what you had to endure but what I do know is this, we ALL face challenges everyday and how we choose to handle them will separate the conquerors from the conquered.
I want to encourage you today, donot allow yourself to remain a prisoner of your circumstances.