Knowing the right thing and doing the right thing is not always an automatic occurrence.
I recognize that because of our own weaknesses, fears, doubts and sometimes even our upbringing that the ‘right’ thing may not always be clear and can be quite scary at times.
Thankfully, we have a choice to live life not by our own understanding but through someone greater than us. God has equipped us with His word that guides and directs us in the way we should go.
Heavenly Father thank you for this beautiful Friday morning that You have blessed us with. Lord my prayer for every person reading this message is that we would be gifted with Your strength, wisdom, understanding and courage to do the right thing in every situation we find ourselves in. When we seek You Lord may we always find clarity and guidance. In Jesus name, amen!
Have a blessed day and a wonderful weekend. 🙂
Thank you for making this blog one of your stops in this journey called life.
There have been times in my life when I wished and even prayed for a simple answer to some of my problems that would clearly say, “Cherylene, do this or do that.”
There were also times when I didn’t feel like I would ever find the answers or my way out of some of the situations I found myself in.
I blamed everyone and everything for what was happening around me. The bank, my ex, my family, the economy, work and ultimately life. I honestly believed that the universe was just ganging up me and would not give me a break. The people around me didn’t seem to be faced with as many obstacles as I was and this made me angry and even a little resentful. It is sad to say but I was not in a good place.
Everything just seemed to be falling a part. Whenever I thought I had finally had a breakthrough something else would happen. I was stressed out, frustrated and angry and one day I just hit my peak. You know, the straw that broke the camel’s back kind of scenario. I can tell you this now but I never told anyone else. Well, now the world will know but maybe this could help someone who is where I was.
I sat in my room and just started crying and crying like never before. I’m usually someone who holds her shit together and would just keep everything inside but this time was different. This time I cried out to God because I realized that I was really angry with myself and God for ‘allowing’ me to get where I was.
I knew I could do better and be better but I just did not know how or where to start. I don’t know how long I sat there crying and just asking God why this was all happening to me and why he wouldn’t help me.
Then all of a sudden I felt a sense calm and peace fill me and my room. I then heard a voice say, “You never asked for my help. You complain and complain about your problems but you never once asked me directly for my help.”
I sat there on my bed in shock and even doubting I heard anything because there was no one else around. I was home alone just me, myself and I and yet I felt ashamed of myself. I kneeled down beside my bed and prayed and ask God to forgive me. I asked for his guidance and direction in and over every aspect of my life.
Over the next few days, months and years I learnt to stop complaining about what was not right in my life and learned to give praise and thanks for what was right. I had to trust in God’s plan for my life and demonstrate that trust through my words and actions and not stress over the stuff I did not have the details for.
My life has changed and improved more than I thought possible thanks to the favour and mercy of God in my life. The good news is, I know God is not done yet. I had to make a conscious decision to change the way I was going about life – my thinking, the words I would speak over my situations even some of the people I surrounded myself with. It was in no way easy but I see now that it was necessary. I took that step of faith towards a new beginning and a better, happier life and I have no regrets.
I wish I had done it sooner but I recognise now that everything had to happen the way it did for me to truly appreciate where I am today.
It’s never too late. If you’ve been crying out to God for help and direction and have not seen improvements in your life maybe, just maybe you’re not looking close enough to the answers or signs he has given you to get you where you need to be.
God gives us signs we just need to open ourselves up to seeing and receiving them.
You’ve made it this far. You are more blessed than you know. Just had to stop by and tell you so. Don’t give up!
Thank you for stopping by. Make today and the rest of the week a great one. 🙂
Have you ever felt as though you were destined do more with your life but could never put your finger on it? I have been there and I know how frustrating and depressing that can be.
Do not be discouraged. I have highlighted eleven things that I believe play a huge role in keeping us stuck in life.
Distractions – refer to all of those things in life that prevent you from seeing and being everything you’re meant to be.
Negativity – will only break you down. This can be internal or external.
Stuck in your comfort zone – take small steps to overcome your fears. Don’t let fear keep you from learning new things.
Poor Attitude – our attitudes both positive and negative play an important role in developing and shaping who we are and the quality of our life experiences. Be mindful of the messages you are sending.
LackingGratitude – showing our gratitude to others for all they have done and do for us is good, not only for the soul but our relationships with them.
LackingPerseverance –perseverance is that drive to see things through no matter what. It is critical to our success without it we tend to give up easily. We only fail when we stop trying.
Lacking Guidance – there is no shame in asking for help. No one has all the answers, when in doubt I suggest prayer. Ask God to guide you as you look for answers and I believe that he will give you the answers in a way that you will understand.
Unforgiveness – is toxic and unhealthy. When you choose not to forgive, you are choosing to keep yourself a prisoner to that negative experience. Forgive that person and set yourself free. It’s not for them but for YOU.
Not knowing your WORTH and LOVING yourself – If this is broken you have to fix it. Repair this relationship with yourself. You are worthy! You are an amazing person with so much to offer. You CAN do anything you put your mind to.
Denial – gives us a false picture of what’s really going on. Take a step back and try to view your situation as a ‘bystander’ and not a ‘participant’, the aim here is objectivity. Once you have done this, take the necessary corrective action.
Self-pity – this is a state of mind. This is when we choose to allow negative experiences to lock us into emotions that keep us prisoners of those experiences. STOP BEING THE VICTIM AND BE THE VICTOR!
The common element in each scenario is YOU. YOU are ultimately in control. YOU have the power and say in your life as to what goes and what stays. Remember that!!!
Get behind the driver’s seat and take control of your life today! 🙂