Happy Anniversary – Budding Regardless


Today, Budding Regardless which is run by the lovely Mbalenhle is celebrating 1 year today.

Happy One Year Anniversary Budding Regardless!  Mbalenhle you have created an amazing blog and you are an amazing blogger.  Best wishes to you on this very special day.  May you continue to enlighten and inspire all that visit.

Mbalenhle has shared in her post today some very important things that she has learnt over the past 12 months.  She shares her insight and her wisdom.   You can check it out here it’s called 12 Things I Have Realised in 12 Months.

I look forward to achieving this significant milestone as well in the not too distant future.  Thank you Budding Regardless for the insight and smiles you bring to my day.

Happy Anniversary!!!

Liebster Award #3

I would like to thank the Yellowfuzzyduck for nominating me for the Liebster Award.  She blogs over at the Turtledesk and she is amazing.  At her blog you would find beautiful graphic designs, photography, poetry and other thoughts that she feels inspired to share with her readers.

She even designed the logo for my website which I love very much. 🙂  Be sure to go over and see for yourself how amazing and talented she is.


  1. Answer the 11 questions that your nominator has asked you
  2. Nominate 11 other bloggers
  3. Ask your nominees 11 questions
  4. Let them know that you have nominated them

Yellowfuzzyduck’s Questions

  1. Where do you see your blog in 5 years?  This is a tough one because we don’t know what the future the holds but I do know I would like to still be blogging. In 5 years, I would like to see my blog grow in numbers beyond my wildest dreams full of readers who truly enjoy and appreciate what I have to say. 🙂
  2. What was the most challenging post (in terms of editing pictures, writing/explaining) you’ve done so far?  The most challenging post I’ve done was my “Dear Dad Letter” because it was very dear to my heart.
  3. What is your favorite movie? I don’t really have a favourite movie because there are so many shows that I love watching but there are very few that enjoy watching over and over again. I would go with Disney’s – Frozen and Moana. 🙂 I love the Disney movies.
  4. How do you find ideas for posts? My ideas come from both inside and outside of me.  Sometimes I recall a moment in time, sometimes I write based on a feeling or a word that comes to mind. Inspiration is all around us we just have to tap into it.  🙂
  5. What is your favorite post that you’ve written?  My favourite post, this is another difficult one because they are all special to me but the post “What motherhood means to me” holds an extra special place in my heart.
  6. What is a pet peeve of yours? When people chew loudly and have their mouths open.
  7. What is your favorite quote? I have a few favourites but this one from Mahatma Gandhi comes to me “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
  8. What are the characteristics of a good blog post, in your opinion?  A good blog post would not only capture the reader from the title but would hold their attention and leave them with more than they came with. Hopefully, I do this from time to time. 🙂
  9. What have you learned from blogging? We all have our own style and way of doing things and that is what makes this community great.
  10. When not blogging, what do you do for fun? Fun, I believe is best had when shared with the ones you love and who love you.  Watch movies, go to the beach, go to the arcade, sit at home playing board games or just creating our own entertainment.  Fun can be had anywhere once all present have the right attitude. 🙂
  11. Two random facts about you. 1) I love playing pool. 2) I don’t have any tattoos.

My nominees are:

  1. Simple Ula
  2. Nel
  3. shinavyblogspot
  4. Running Forward…My Way
  5. Frazier’s Racket
  6. Brusque
  7. Heart to Soul
  8. Sunsunnyblog

My questions

  1. If you could be any animal which one would you be?
  2. Use one word to describe yourself.
  3. What quality in a partner is non-negotiable for you?
  4. Use one word to describe what blogging means to you.
  5. Best thing about blogging?
  6. Worse thing about blogging?
  7. If you could go to any period in time in your life – would you go to your past, stay in your present or race to the future?
  8. Two random facts about you.
  9. Where do you see your blog in 3 years?
  10. Do you prefer to be in front of the camera or behind the camera?
  11. One piece of advice for dealing with stressful situations.

I understand that not everyone chooses to participate in these awards but if you do choose to participate I would love to see your responses. Thank you for the time and effort you put into your blogs. Keep writing!

Have a great day! Thanks for stopping by. 🙂


One Lovely Blog Award #2

I would like to thank the lovely heartsinink blog for nominating me for this award. I am honoured to have her recognise my blog.  Heartsinink is a blog that all about sharing memories, thoughts, opinions and views on various life events that she’s experienced. Don’t be shy go on over and say hello you just might like it. 🙂


  • Each nominee must thank the person who nominated them and link their blog in their post.
  • They must include the rules and add the blog award badge as an image.
  • Must add 7 facts about themselves.
  • Nominate 15 people to do the award!

7 facts about myself

  1. I was part of a twin.
  2. I love avocados. If I’m the person cutting the slices I may end up giving you the smaller slice. 😉
  3. I don’t buy or own tons of handbags.  I believe in functionality and not necessarily mixing and matching my bags to my wardrobe.  So I tend to gravitate towards neutral colours and avoid very loud or bright handbags.
  4. I love interior and exterior decorating.
  5. I’m a sucker for BBQ meats with fries or mashed potatoes and cole slaw or macaroni salad and fresh salad.  Yummy!
  6. I’m not the best swimmer.  Doggie paddle is an actual swimming move lol.
  7. I’m not much of a drinker but I like to have a social alcoholic beverage now and then. 🙂

My nominees are:

  1. Ipuna Black
  2. Yellowfuzzyduck
  3. Lee
  4. Dippy-Dotty Girl
  5. Shinavyblogspot
  6. Mbalenhle
  7. Outnaboutweb
  8. A learning poet
  9. Theworldoffritters
  10. Kerrymckim
  11. kaliborovic
  12. Jirah Merizz
  13. AdriannaJ
  14. Simple Ula
  15. Nel

I understand that not everyone chooses to be a part of the award nomination process. By nominating the following blogs, I am able to show my thanks and appreciation for the contributions they make. If you choose to take part, that is fantastic! If not, just keep doing what you do. 🙂

Thanks for stopping by.

Sunshine Blogger Award #2 & #3

A special thank you to two wonderful bloggers Bhavika from  Bhavika24 and Roda over at Growing Self for nominating me for the Sunshine Blogger Award.  I am honoured to be considered by such amazing bloggers.

Each of these ladies brings their unique style and sunshine to their readers. Trust me when I tell you guys to visit their blogs because you would not be disappointed.

What is the Sunshine Blogger Award?

The Sunshine Blogger Award is given to those who are creative, positive and inspiring, while spreading sunshine to the blogging community.

How Does It Work:

  • Thank the person(s) who nominated you in a blog post and link back to their blog
  •  Answer the 11 questions sent by the person who nominated you
  •  Nominate 11 new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions
  • List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo on your post and/or on your blog.

Bhavika’s questions

1.What/who gives you peace in life?

My peace in life comes from God. I pray and ask him to grant me peace of mind so that I’m not overwhelmed by the challenges that come my way.  After God, knowing that my family is happy and well-cared for gives me a sense of peace.  🙂

2.If given a chance, which confession would you like to make?

Honey, been there done that!  Next 🙂

3.What do you think is the most positive and negative thing about my blog?

The most positive thing about your blog is YOU.  You are positive and try to inspire others there’s nothing negative about that.  If nothing else, I want to encourage you to continue doing what you do. 🙂

4.How would you define “Life”?

Life is what we make it. It is our experiences both the good and the bad. These experiences help shape who we are but they do not define us.  We get to determine how we are remembered when ‘life’ is no more through what we do today.

5.What made you blog?

For me this is a combination of who and what. My sister encouraged me to take my writing from paper and translate it into a blog so that I would be able to share my experiences and some of my perspectives on life, people and relationships and other topics in a more engaging environment.  I will always be grateful to her for that push. 🙂  Thank you Candice!

6.Your favorite quote?

“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” Charles R. Swindoll

7.Book which changed your way of thinking?

Reposition Yourself – by T. D. Jakes

8.My post, which you liked the most?

You have a few posts that I like but Darkness and Dear Stranger stand out the most for me.

9.Favorite blogger?

I have a few favourites so I can’t highlight just one.  Each blogger I choose to follow brings something unique to the ‘table’ that I enjoy and see myself learning from and for that they are all my favourites and that of course includes YOU. 🙂

10. One desperate wish?

Financial freedom/ security!  🙂


Roda’s Questions:      

  1. Use one word to describe yourself. – Determined
  2. What is your favorite season? Rainy season because it is not as hot as in the dry season.
  3. Are you a city mouse or a country mouse? – City mouse
  4. What is your superpower? – Mind control
  5. Why do you write? – I love it!
  6. What is your favorite book? – Reposition Yourself: Living Life without Limits by: T. D. Jakes
  7. What brings you JOY? – Blogging and my family
  8. What is your favorite fruit? – Avocado
  9. Who is your role model? Why? – My mother because she is strong, hard-working and determined.
  10. If you could visit any place in the world, where would you go? – I have so many but I would love to visit Paris.
  11. What do you love most about YOU? –My personality.

My nominees are:

  1. Shinavyblogs
  2. Reactionary Tales
  3. Theoldhouseintheshires
  4. simple Ula
  5. Lee
  6. Rhythm In Life
  7. Tauqeer Writes
  8. poetrylover
  9.  AdriannaJ

My questions to nominees:

  1. What is your favourite time of day?
  2. What do you think are the two most important character traits a person can possess?
  3. In a relationships that stand the test of time, what do you think are the key things for their success?
  4. What do you do to help care for the environment?
  5. Use one word to describe your childhood memories
  6. If you could do one thing for the world to make it a better place what would you do?
  7. Do you have a favourite fast-food restaurant?
  8. In the junk food category, what food do you consider your weakness?
  9. If you won the lottery in the morning what would be the first three things you would do?
  10. What do you like most about your blog?
  11. Do you have a favourite quote?

I understand that not everyone chooses to be a part of the award nomination process. By nominating the following blogs, I am able to show my thanks and appreciation for the contributions you all make. If you choose to take part, that is fantastic because I would love to see your responses! If not, just keep doing what you do. 🙂

Thanks again to both Roda and Bhavika!



Mystery Blogger Award #3

The lovely Shinelle over at Shinavy Blogs nominated me for the Mystery Blogger Award.   This has been my third nomination to date and it still brings me great joy to be considered and recognised by my fellow bloggers.  Who is Shinelle?

Shinelle is a wonderful person.  If you’re looking for inspiration, food and sports then she is definitely worth a visit.  Feel free to drop by and see for yourself how amazing she is.

The Mystery Blogger Award was created by Okoto Enigma . Why?  She writes, “Their blog not only captivates; it inspires and motivates. They are one of the best out there, and they deserve every recognition they get. This award is also for bloggers who find fun and inspiration in blogging; and they do it with so much love and passion.”

Thank you Okoto for creating such a wonderful award. Let’s get into it.


  1. Place the award logo or image within your blog post.
  2. Thank the person who nominated you and link their blog in your post.
  3. Name the creator of the award and link their blog.
  4. List the rules.
  5. Answer your nominator’s questions.
  6. Tell your readers 3 things about yourself.
  7. Nominate 10-20 people.
  8. Ask your nominees 5 original questions of your choice.
  9. Share links to your best blog posts.

3 Things about me:

  1. I love DIY projects such as painting and even creating fun, useful and decorative works of art.
  2. I have very simple taste. When it comes to my clothing I tend to focus on  how well the clothes fit and look on my body type and not on brand.
  3. I am easy to talk too. 🙂

Some of my favourite posts:

The reality is I have many favourites and they would change and grow as my writing continues but take a look at some of my more recent favourites below.

Shinelle’s questions:

1. Do you prefer heels or flats?

I wear both from time to time but I definitely prefer flats pretty sandals.

2. What’s your favourite genre of music?

It is hard to narrow it down to just one because each one has something beautiful and unique about it.

 3. Are you a sporty person if so, which are your favourites? 

I used to enjoy lawn tennis, table tennis and netball when I was younger.  I am looking at  getting back into playing tennis.

 4. What was the last movie you saw? Was It good?

The last movie I saw was Transformers The Last Knight and it was good.

 5. What’s your favourite dessert?

My favourite dessert would be cake and ice cream.  I know you asked for one both if I could choose I would have both unless it is a cake and ice cream dessert in one. Yummy!!! 🙂

My nominees are:

My questions to nominees:

  1. Are you more the talkative or listening type in social settings?
  2. Do you prefer to read the book or watch the movie?
  3. Which cartoon character would you say best describes you or you can relate to most?
  4. Are you good at board games? If yes, which one?
  5. If you’re at a party would you describe yourself as a dancer or more of an observer?

I understand that not everyone chooses to take part in the nomination process.  So I just want to take this opportunity to recognise the above blogs for their contributions to the blogging community.  Should you choose to take part great, if not, no worries.  Just keep writing! 🙂

Thanks again to Shinelle for allowing me the opportunity to recognise and appreciate other bloggers out there. Have a great week everyone.


Music Reflection Mondays #4

Welcome back to Music Reflection Mondays!

My site has had some on and off technical difficulties for the last few days but I hope that my hosting site has corrected the problem once and for all.

To my readers who like to comment a special thank you for your patience and understanding during this very stressful time.  Your words of encouragement keep me motivated and helped more than you know.  Thank you for your continued support. 🙂

I hope your day was not too stressful but rather productive.  Whatever it was earlier I hope that you are in a better mood and that you’re trying to relax after a long day. 🙂

Tonight, on  Music Reflection Mondays I’m going to do a poem. Let’s do this!

M   – is for the marvelous melodies you bring to us

U    – is for the undeniable universal appeal you have

S    – is for the many songs, singers and musicians that bring joy to our souls

I      – is for the inspiration and innovation that translates into words that we
         can  never forget

C    – is for all the behind the scene creators who help bring the music to life.

The purpose of this poem was not just to highlight how great music is but to also remind us that the music does not create itself.  Thus we should not only appreciate the music and the artistes that we love so much but also recognise that all of them had or have a team. 

Yes, a team of writers, music producers and video directors just to name a few that helped shape the music and the supporting videos for the music we love so much.  Sometimes we listen to the music and don’t realise how many people are truly involved in making it a reality.

So the next time you listen to a song you love remember that there were many other amazing people who came together to make it great! 🙂

Have a great night!  Thanks for stopping by. 🙂

Unique Blogger Award #3

The Unique Blogger Award round three.  Please forgive me I honestly forgot about this.  If I don’t save my nominations to get back to them at a later date I honestly forget.   I make time to do them because when someone makes a point to recognize you and your blog the least we can do is say “Thank You” and share the love to others.

I was nominated by the Avid Observer over at whatlivingtaughtme.  I am so honoured that she taught of my blog. The Avid Observer is all about motivating and inspiring others you should definitely pay her a visit and see for yourself.

The Rules:

  • Share the link of the blogger who has shown love to you by nominating you.
  • Answer the questions.
  • In the spirit of sharing love and solidarity with our blogging family, nominate 8-13 people for the same award.
  • Ask them 3 questions.

Avid Observer’s questions

3 Words or a 3 letter sentence that can describe you.

Three words that can describe me are: hardworking, kind and witty.

3 Top most places you wanna visit.

My three top places to visit include: Bali, London and Paris.

3 Best advises according to you for any blogger.

  • Never give up!
  • Try new things. You won’t grow and develop your abilities if you only stick to what you know.
  • Give to others what you expect from them.  Support and read the blogs of others if you want them to make time to read and support yours.

My nominees:

  1. Nel
  2. Roda
  3. poetrylover
  4. kayla
  5. braveandrecklessblog
  6. shinavyblogspot
  7. Ipuna Black
  8. hailangeliccreation
  9. Ajay Vyas
  10. Doni W
  11. Sunsunnyblog
  12. Storyteller
  13. Diganta Misra

My questions to nominees:

  1. What one piece of advice would you give to new bloggers just starting?
  2. If you could visit any country where would you go?
  3. What has been the best part of this blogging journey for you?

I understand that not everyone chooses to be a part of the award nomination process.  By nominating the following blogs, I am able to show thanks and appreciation for the contributions you all make on a daily basis.  If you choose to take part, that is fantastic because I would love to read your answers! If not, no worries! Just keep writing… 🙂

Thank you Avid Observer for the opportunity to share this award with others.