Merry Christmas 2017!!!

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The big day has finally arrived and yes, after all of the preparations the hustling and bustling it feels good to finally slow down and just take it all in with dear friends and family.

I want to wish each and every one of you a Merry Christmas.  🙂   I trust that you are all having a wonderful day and wanted to say, thank you!  Thank you for your continued support and encouragement.  I am truly grateful.

  • I want to thank God for each of you. May he continue to bless, guide and protect you.
  • I want to thank God for always making a way even when we can’t seem to find one.
  • I want to thank God for always being there guiding and protecting us even when we don’t see him.  I know there have been times when things could have gone terribly wrong and I felt and saw his protection working in my life. Thank you Lord!
  • I want to thank God for the simple things, the little and the big things.
  • Thank you Lord for the lives of the people you are working behind the scenes to deliver their breakthroughs sooner than later as you did for me.  Give them a sign and reassure them that they are not alone and that things will work out.

Thank you Lord for this Christmas and all that you have blessed us with.  May we always have your favour and blessing in and over our lives.

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Have a wonderful Christmas and remember to give thanks.

The Blame Game

The blame game only highlights the obvious that is, that something went wrong or not as planned.

The time and effort we put into it can drain our energy and leaving those involved feeling discouraged and angry. How we address issues in times like these can help make or break relationships.

Things go wrong from time to time and it is important that we look at where things went wrong and why so we can learn from them.  However, more effort should be placed on finding a resolution and a way forward.

So before we go off highlighting everything someone else did incorrectly – stop, think and ask yourself, if it were me how would I like to be spoken to or about.

We all make mistakes. Let’s choose to learn from them.

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Easier Said Than Done

It is usually easier to say to someone what they should do or how they should live their life until you are the one faced with your own situation or dilemma.

When the shoe is on the other foot and you are the person actually feeling the squeeze you realise it is not as easy sometimes as we think especially when it comes to feelings of the heart.

  • Sometimes in life those close to us just need us to listen and not judge or list all that is wrong with their lives. 
  • Sometimes they just need to know that we love and care about them no matter what. 
  • Sometimes they just need to be reminded about the things that make them the special and amazing people we know and love.

Empathize with them and if you do have personal experience in that area then simply share what your experience was, how it affected you and what you learned from it.  Let him or her decide for them self what they need to do.

The last thing you want or need is this person becoming resentful of you when all you’re trying to do is help and protect them.  Sometimes we can’t protect or prevent the inevitable.  If they have to go through this chapter of their life then there is nothing we can do about it.

It would be sad to see them in hurting especially if you were trying to save them from the possible pain but I’ve learnt as a survivor from a less than perfect situation that sometimes the experience is needed for us to blossom into the stronger, more confident individuals that we are supposed to be.   Sometimes in life there are just some lessons we all have to learn for ourselves.  The wisdom to be gained for each individual is different and so are the potential benefits to be achieved.

Don’t give up on them.  Don’t try to control their lives as this would only push them away.  Be a good listener if that is what they need at that time.  Be an unbiased advisor if they are seeking advice.  You need to be as objective as possible allowing them to make the final decision themselves.

Once they know you love them and mean well.  They will always come to you.  Be that support column or shoulder to cry on.  Share your knowledge and wisdom but don’t force it on them.  Lastly, pray for them.

 

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